Who helps more with the housework is a really big issue for wives but another biggie is romance. Many of us wish our husbands were more romantic. Some of us have made peace with the romance issue. A few of us may even wish for less of it! (If that's you, it's probably best you don't admit it!) Others still may prefer to be the one who intiates and creates the romance. How does it work in your marriage?
How do Extraordinary Wives keep the romance alive? Let's find out at The League!
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I voted, thanks for making me go FIRST.
Darla – Anytime dear!
I voted for "me" though that's just because I'm the one who always *wants* romance. But my husband, when he wants to be, can VERY romantic and has planned wonderfully romantic dates and trips for us. Maybe I should have said "both"!
My husband says he wants to be romantic but is insecure and says he's afraid of "letting me down" if I don't like what he plans. I've reassured him over and over that its the thought that counts and have never said anything negative to discourage him in that arena. I hope to convince him that just taking initiative to plan something with me in mind is romantic in itself.