One Fork Entertaining

Oneforkentertainingmenusforbuffet I was over 30 before I had a dining room.  Until then, we tucked a small round table in the kitchen or a corner of the living room.

That entertaining excuse was one of my favorites:  I can't possibly have people over.  They don't even have a place to sit down and eat!

Then I checked out a '60s party book from the library.  The bohemian author described huge bashes squeezed in a NY studio, with drinks served in the bathtub and inventive buffets laid on the bed. 

(Get your mind out of the gutter!  It was not that kind of book.)

That's when I learned the magic of One Fork Entertaining.  If the food doesn't need to be cut, your guests can comfortably eat anywhere: the sofa, chairs, or even big floor cushions.  No table required.

I use this strategy whenever I have more than 8 guests for supper.  Here are some guidelines:

  • Main dishes that don't need to be cut:  casseroles or stir fries with cubed chicken, ham, or beef; quiches; short pastas instead of long spaghetti strands.
  • Salads that are already mixed and chopped:  Cobb salads, cherry tomatoes and mozzarella chunks, couscous with roasted vegetables.
  • No-drip foods: soups, cobblers, and ice cream are better eaten at table. 

You won't have an elegant four-course dinner, but you will have a house full of happy guests in a relaxed and comfortable setting.  Bonus:  If you're short on silverware, pick up an assortment of vintage forks at the nearest Goodwill.

Head on over to Blissfully Domestic Living to chat about your favorite One Fork Dinner!

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7 responses to “One Fork Entertaining”

  1. Jamie

    I love the vintage forks idea…very creative!

  2. Meredith from Merchant Ships

    I should add that you will want to make knives and spoons available, especially to older people, who of course should be seated at whatever table you have.

    Just that juggling 3 utensils would not be necessary for your menu.

  3. And that is what true hospitality is — using what you do have (creatively) to bless other people.

  4. Janel

    Meredith, you just rock! What a great idea… Can you share that lovely retro book title? :)

  5. I like that idea of One Fork Entertaining. I've never heard it called that, but it's a good plan. We have a dining room, but it's tiny. Our table is an oval and can seat up to 6 people, but it's a tight fit. We've learned to just move the living room couch (the dining room and living room are really one large open space), and push a card table (or 2!) up against the dining table. The seating for dining then extends into the living room, but at least we can all sit together if we have a large-ish group.

    Entertaining in smaller spaces can be a lot more challenging, but on the plus side, it's a lot more cozy.

  6. Ann at mommysecrets

    So clever!!

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