We do not buy them much and are a little concerned that they are beginning to expect it from her. We can not get her to stop even though we have repeatedly told her.

So I very much agree with this one.

I would also add not to be offended if your kids do not always take your advice… though it may go with supporting their parenting decisions.

YES, there is something wonderful about the connection between grandparents, and their grandchildren… IF grandparents will take on the responsibility to create it!

Like any long-term relationship, it takes work. Granted, our relationship with a grandchild, is among the most rewarding that we can develop.

These "rules" for grandparenting, are meant to help in the creation of that most wonderful relationship:-)

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Kathryn Skaggs

I understand what you are saying. I honestly believe, that most grandparents, just don't realize what an impact they could have on their grandchildren's lives. We need to change that.

Thank you for your comment.

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Kathryn Skaggs

Isn't it interesting, that sometimes what we lack in our lives, can have a more powerful influence on our lives, than what we "have"?

I too, did not have the constant influence in my life, of my own grandparents. However, I had the opportunity because of my parent's divorce – to go and live with one of my grandmother's for a time. That was powerful.

I later realized just how much her influence in my life, meant. As my own children began to have babies, I became determined to fulfill my role as a grandparent, in their lives.

Sometimes, it is the knowing of what is missing – which drives us to be better people.

Today, I clearly see the power of a Grandparent. Parents need our help and support to bring up their children. Our grandchildren are such a blessing to us.

Thank you for your very kind words.

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Kathryn Skaggs

No doubt, many parents would like to "frame" this list of grandparenting rules, and even hang it for their own parents!

I'm not sure which, or how many of the rules your children's grandparents struggle with, but I am well aware that if these rules are not applied in the relationship with our grandchildren – problems can arise.

Perhaps you could simply introduce the grandparents in your life, to the Timeless Bliss channel, here on Blissfully Domestic? They will find me:-)

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Kathryn Skaggs

I appreciate the "mom" approval for this list of Top Ten Rules for Grandparents. Trust me, it is very important to have a positive relationship with the parents of our grandchildren. The things that we do for and with our grandchildren, must have the support of their parents.

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Kathryn Skaggs

There is no doubt that couples who are grandparents can, and should – support each other in visiting their grandchildren.

However, I'm not ready to start handing out marriage advice, when it comes to grandparenting! LOL

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Kathryn Skaggs