Love Your Curves
I've always been a big fan of Marilyn Monroe. This was a woman who was gorgeous, sexy and seemingly had some talent. She wore a size 16 dress. Who would think that a size 16 could look so confident and beautiful? It's all in how you feel about your body.
Growing up, I was a skinny kid. I could eat anything and still have the shape of a toothpick. I don't miss that look at all!! At the age of 45, I've learned that skinny thighs and no hips are either meant for a five year old girl or a man. I've had five children over the past almost 24 years. I've always taken pride in how I look. I'm proud that giving birth gave me hips that look like hips and a rear end that doesn't cause my pants to sag. I am one with my curves.
I recently read that there was a study done linking women's curves to intelligence. Maybe it has more to do with confidence. If you feel great about how you look and don't obsess over every part of your body, you'll be happy. In turn, your brain will be kicked into high gear. Hey, I'm no scientist, but I know that when I look good, I feel powerful. That doesn't mean I have to be skinny.
Don't hide your figure! If you're a curvy woman, just enjoy what you've got. Wear flattering clothing. That doesn't mean you need to wear shirts that are three sizes too big. Wear clothing that fits YOU, not someone else.
Accessorize! Wear great, bold jewelry and carry an awesome bag!
Pamper yourself! It doesn't have to break the bank. A manicure or pedicure, even done at home, is a "feel good" thing. When you feel good about yourself, everyone notices.
Smile! This is your number one accessory. Be proud of those curves you've earned. I assure you that even if you aren't the perfect size (what is the perfect size, anyway?), no one will notice if you have a great attitude.
I love my curvy self. I've come to SO appreciate how hard my body has worked over the past 45 years. I don't want to spend my days dieting or deprive myself of things I love. I live healthy, don't smoke, rarely drink and eat well. But I don't chew on carrot sticks or miss a great meal. I enjoy a great steak as much as I enjoy a plate full of vegetables. All in moderation. This life is too short to fret over our hips.
Let's do away with the misconceptions that a woman has to be skin and bones to be attractive. So, ladies, next time you are getting dressed, look in the mirror and say,
"You are one spectacular curvy woman…."
"You are one spectacular curvy woman…."
Cheryl A. Phillips
Cheryl is a single mom to five awesome children. She has a passion for writing, laughter and all things chocolate. She shows her non sugar-coated side on her blog,
The Daily Blonde, and is a self-proclaimed Twitter addict.
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OMG, if I had curves in the right places I'd be on board with you, but lately I've been looking like Humpty Dumpty rather than Mother Goose. All kidding aside, you're right – at a "certain age" it's time to embrace what you've got.
Couldn't agree more. Sexiness and confidence comes from embracing your inner hotness!
Can not agree with you, I am coming from a lifetime of fighting off the pounds. Fat kid, fat teenager etc. Only people who do not have a real weight problem can say they are ok with the body they have.
Hi Ellena:
Thanks for the comment. I understand that not everyone will agree with my post, especially if that battle has been difficult. My main point is that there is far too much emphasis on being "perfect" or "skinny". Just be comfortable with who you are inside.
I 100% loved this post! I have narrow hips too, but 4 children later and at age 40, I do not weigh 120 any more (far from it!) I love the body I have now, and am very proud of its accomplishments when I look at my amazing children!
What a great post…thanks for your honesty and transparency!
xoxo,
Melissa in Mel's World