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Attitude Is A Choice Only You Can Make
One of the secrets to a good marriage, I think, is the ability to let slide the things that don't really matter.
So one of you ALWAYS loads the dishwasher, and the other NEVER offers to help. It's not really grounds for divorce. But it can lead that way depending on the attitude you nurture day [...]

The intimate marriage
Ever notice how good sex and a good marriage have a great deal in common? When one person moves one way, the other shifts to accommodate them. Each knows what the other enjoys and does it automatically, almost without thought, bringing pleasure to the other. Sometimes one takes the lead, sometimes the other. If it's [...]

10 Things He Wishes You Wouldn't Do-#1
#1 Avoid sex as much as possible and when you do have it, make sure that it's over as soon as possible.
Come on Ladies. 'Fess up. I know most of you know exactly what I'm talking about. (For those that don't and are on the opposite end of the equation, sorry, this post isn't for [...]
10 Things He Wishes You Wouldn't Do-#2
#2-Behave irrationally and do things without having a good reason for doing them.
Alright, let's be honest. We all do irrational things from time to time. We have our own way of doing things and it works for us…often…we think…at least, that's how we've always done it…and it gets done eventually…Oh just leave me alone and [...]
He CAN Take a Hint
December is always a landmark month for my husband and I. Not because of Christmas, we don't really celebrate it by exchanging gifts the way most families do. No, December is a significant month for us because two of our daughters were born this month, within 4 days of each other, and less than a [...]
10 Things He Wishes You Wouldn't Do #3
#3 Expect him to fill all of your emotional needs and be clingy about it.
Let me set the scene for you.
A young woman marries a man she loves and imagines that now she will be truly happy. That lonely feeling that she used to get sometimes will no longer bother her because she has him. [...]
10 things he wishes you wouldn't do-#4
#4 – Decide you know what he's going to say before he says it.
That old cliché about finishing each other's sentences sounds romantic but he would really prefer you didn't finish his sentences for him all the time. It shows a lack of patience or desire to really hear what he's trying to say if [...]
10 things he wishes you wouldn't do-#5
#5 – Criticize all of his ideas.
Photo Credit: Capture Queen
Do you veto an idea before your husband has even managed to express it fully?
Do you know why it won't work, and tell him its impractical and silly the instant he tells you about it?
Do you ever support him when he wants to try something new [...]

