Babywearing 101 – Part Five: Asian-Style Baby Carrier

Today we are continuing our series on the art of babywearing by taking a look at carriers that fit into a category called Asian-Style baby carriers.  These carriers can each trace their roots back to use among the people of Asia, and although they are similar in construction, there are some slight variations to be noted.  blissful buzz Babywearing 101   Part Five: Asian Style Baby Carrier

The basic construction of an Asian Style carrier consists of a rectangular piece of material and straps that are connected to the material that serve to "tie" the carrier onto the person who is wearing the baby.

Unlike a ring sling or a pouch sling, an Asian Style carrier is a two-shouldered carrier, which translates into the babywearer having both hands free to attend to other activities.  A baby can be worn in this style carrier in a front carry (such as the sweet baby peeking out of his Kozy on the left – photo courtesy ruby lu), in a hip carry, or on the back.

The Asian style carrier that is most closely identified with Japanese roots is the onbuhimo (examples include this one from FreeHand and this one from Peppermint.com).  Korean inspired carriers are podeagis (like this one from EllaRoo).  The carrier from this category that is probably the most popular today is the Chinese inspired mei tai (more on this style below).  For more information on the slight variations in these styles, see this article by Rebecca Wolf. 

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The mei tai (pronounced MAY TIE) has found quite a following among babywearers around the world.  The second carrier I added to my collection was a mei tai, and once I started wearing my then nine-month old oldest daughter in it, I wondered how I ever got along without it!  I started out with mastering the front carry, but before long I ventured into the back carry and she and I were both delighted with the result.  My hands were really free to shop or do dishes or laundry or whatever I needed to work on, and she was thrilled to be able to view the world with the same perspective as her mommy.

So, where to begin browsing?  The above-mentioned Kozy carrier has many fans, as does the BabyHawk (that's a gorgeous BabyHawk holding that sweet baby on the left, photo courtesy Tuulya).  In fact, the BabyHawk is a favorite of Blissfully Domestic reader eager little mind.   

Stephanie of Adventures in Babywearing loves her FreeHand mei tai, and I can personally vouch for the Mei Tai Baby.  I added one to our stash when my second daughter was born, and I cannot say enough how helpful it was to wear her in it while I raced around with her big sister. 

As with most any carrier, you can make your own!  Once again, Jan Andrea comes through with some great patterns and ideas to get you started. 

Any other fans of Asian Style carriers out there?  We are discussing our favorite ways to babywear over at the Blissfully Domestic Living forum

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Babywearing 101 – Part Four: Pouch Slings

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Welcome to the next installment in the Babywearing 101 series!  Parts one and two covered some background information on what exactly babywearing is and how to choose a baby carrier, while part three shed some light on ring slings.

The next style of baby carrier is one that is close to my heart – the pouch sling.  I have a special affinity for pouch slings because my own introduction to babywearing came in the form of a Lucky Baby pouch sling.  After I discovered that my daughter had quickly outgrown our Snugli carrier, I knew I had to have some way to get through a grocery shopping trip without having to carry her in my arms while trying to push the cart at the same time.  She was just at the age where she loved to sit on my hip and experience the world around her, so a pouch sling was a perfect solution for us!

A pouch sling is perhaps one of the simplest styles of carriers.  They are simply tubes of material that, when worn, form a pouch for your child to nestle into.  They are a one-shoulder style of carrier and there are no rings, snaps, buckles, tails, or ties.  Sleek and chic! 

The most important aspect of choosing a pouch sling is the fit.  Most pouch slings are not adjustable, and a good fit is the key to a comfortable sling for both mama and baby.  Each pouch sling creator has its own standards of sizing, so make sure you measure carefully before you buy!

Here are some reader faves:
Lots of babywearers love Hotslings.  Easy to find (even at Target!) and a wide variety of sizes.

Blissfully Domestic contributor Moosh in Indy is another fan of Lucky Baby!

For the first six months of babyhood or so, Jo of To a Pretty Life liked the Peanut Shell pouch.

Who doesn't love some Etsy?  Etsy is a great place to find pouch slings.  Amanda of ohamanda! really enjoyed her pouch sling from drewbabydesigns.  Blissfully Domestic's own Jenni of Just Chicken Feed also found a pouch on Etsy that she really liked.

Canadian moms! Eva of Surprised Suburban Housewife loves her Little Star pouch which is lovingly made in Canada.

Janya of Mink Coat and Velvet Sweatpants loved her Mamma's Milk Invisibly Adjustable Pouch.  I've always been intrigued by these pouches because they offer the adjustability that I love in a ring sling in the streamline design of a pouch.  Maybe I'll finally get one for myself when our next baby comes along!

Finally, maybe you'd like to make your own pouch sling!  That's what worked for Shannon of Idylwild.  Jan Andrea has some great instructions and patterns as a jumping off point.

We've been talking about our favorite carriers over at the Blissfully Domestic Forums.  Care to join us?

(Photo courtesy Cheatara)

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BABYwearing 101 – Part Three: Ring Slings

What better way to celebrate our BABY week here at Blissfully Domestic than by talking about one way to wear those snuggly little wee ones?  This is part three in my series on babywearing.  Part One and Part Two have some general information on babywearing that you may want to check out.

In moving forward with this series, I would like to focus on each of the major categories of baby carriers.  I thought we could start with ring slings today.  A ring sling is basically one long rectangular piece of cloth that has been threaded through two rings.  The cloth can be any number of materials and may be padded along the edges or unpadded.  The rings are generally made from aluminum.  The "tail" of the sling – the part that is left over after the cloth has been threaded through the rings – then hangs down from the rings.

When I first started babywearing, I didn't think I would like the ring sling style carrier because of the extra fabric on the tail.  That was before I discovered that the tail can be very useful!  One of my ring slings (from ChicKen ScRatch) has a pocket sewn on the tail – very handy for stashing keys and pacifiers and my cell phone.  The tail has also served me as a nursing cover and as a toddler nose wiper.  Another ring sling I have does not have a pocket on the tail and when I wear this one, I just tuck the tail underneath my baby and it creates a more streamlined look.

Ring slings are great for new babies who like the laying down (or cradle) carry.  My little ones never liked the cradle carry, but I found great success with the tummy-to-tummy carry in the ring sling.  Ring slings are still incredibly useful beyond early infancy as older babies and toddlers usually love to ride on mama's hip – so much easier on mama when the little one is on her hip in the hip carry!

Popular ring slings include zolowear, Ellaroo, Taylor Made, and maya wrap.   

I am excited to include reader recommendations in this series.  Debra of Days of Grace enjoyed her Over the Shoulder Baby Holder.  Mandy of Quiet Radical still loves her Dream Bird Studio ring sling that has taken her youngest from infancy through the preschool years.  (I can't find any current links on Dream Bird, but I bet you can still find them around if you shop For Sale Or Trade forums.)  Here they are modeling this gorgeous sling for you:

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And if you are so inclined, you can also make your own!

Stay tuned for the next article in this series, and don't forget to tell me all about your favorite babywearing carrier! 

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Babywearing 101 – Part Two: Choosing a Carrier

In Part One of my series on babywearing, we talked about some of the great reasons why parents choose to wear their babies.  I hope you got to read through some of those articles as I think you will find them inspiring and motivating.  I especially like this "sling tip" from the article at askdrsears.com – "The womb lasts eighteen months: Nine months inside the mother and nine months on the outside."  Those of us who practice babywearing can tell you that those first nine months of life really are when babies tend to crave most intensely the closeness that slinging your baby provides.

So once you've decided you want to take the plunge into wearing your baby, the next choice you will need to make is choosing a carrier.  This can be an overwhelming and daunting task as there are quite literally hundreds of carriers to choose from.

Many of you may be most familiar with this front-pack style of carrier:


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Perhaps you have seen this style of carrier in form of the Baby Bjorn or Evenflo Snugli on the shelves in the baby section at your favorite baby gear store. This style of carrier is easy to find, but you may find you are dissatisfied with the longevity it can provide.  Many parents find that baby becomes too heavy to wear in this carrier once they have surpassed the fifteen or twenty pound mark.  I think my oldest daughter, Dacey, was about sixteen pounds when I found I could no longer carry her in our Snugli. 

Once she outgrew the Snugli, I began to research my options for our next carrier, and I found there are many on the market today that can take a child from infancy to toddlerhood.  Allow me to emphasize the word many.  Like I mentioned earlier, it can be quite overwhelming to decide if the style you need is a ring sling, pouch sling, wrap, Asian Baby Carrier (also known as mei tai), soft-structured carrier, or some kind of hybrid of one or more of the main styles!

Throughout the rest of this series on babywearing, I am going to spotlight each of the main types of carriers to give each style the in-depth attention that each requires.  In the meantime, check out these resources collected by thebabywearer.com as good places to start your own research:
*What type of carrier is right for me?  A brief guide  
* thebabywearer.com's comparison of baby carriers
* Beyond the Bjorn: How & Why to babywear

Or you may find it helpful to visit the forums at TBW and read feedback from some very knowledgeable babywearers on topics ranging from wearing more than child at a time to accommodating disabilities, special needs, and chronic illness: Babywearing Basics forums

Now I would love to hear from all the readers who want to share their carrier recommendations!  Do you have a carrier you absolutely love?  Please come over to Blissfully Domestic Living and tell me about it!  Or leave a comment with your recommendation.  You may find yourself blissfully linked in one of my upcoming articles!

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Babywearing 101 – Part One: What is babywearing?

Hey moms! Can I let you in on a secret? It's the one parenting practice I could not live without, and it does wonders to reduce infant crying, promote attachment, and encourage social and cognitive development from day one of a baby's life. And although celebrities like Gwen Stefani, Keri Russell, and Sheryl Crow are fellow fans of this practice, it's not just the newest Hollywood trend. In fact, it's a parenting practice that's been around since the times of the ancients.

Babywearing!


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Babywearing is something I am very passionate about because I just can't imagine how I would be able to function without wearing my wee ones. For me, it all started when my oldest daughter was about three months old. She absolutely detested her infant car seat carrier and would wail non-stop each time I tried to make it through a grocery shopping trek with her in tow. (Yeah, she was that baby.)  After a couple of trips through the market with her precariously balanced on my shoulder with one hand, while I dragged the cart behind me with the other, I decided there had to be a better way.

More on our story in my next installment, but for now, here are some great articles on the benefits of babywearing:

The go-to site for all things babywearing, TheBabyWearer.com, has this short and quick overview of why babywearing is great for babies and for moms and dads – Great Things About Babywearing.

In fact, while you are there, check out the expanded list of articles on the benefits of babywearing at thebabywearer.

Attachment Parenting guru Dr. Sears has plenty to say about babywearing, including this overview of the benefits of babywearing – AskDrSears: Benefits of Babywearing – as well as Three Reasons Babywearing Reduces SIDS.

More to come in part two of my Babywearing 101 series!

(And no, that darling mama and precious baby in the picture are not of me and my babe.  Photo courtesy of istockphoto.)

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8 responses to “Babywearing 101 – Part One: What is babywearing?”

  1. Mrs. Fussypants

    I can never find a sling that doesn't hurt my back aftr the baby is about 20 pounds.

    I'm about to have #5 and I need to buy some fancy ones! ;)

  2. Beckie

    I am loving still slinging my lightweight 2 year old :) It makes it so much easier to homeschool my daughter and to keep my household in some semblance of order ;)

  3. Kristin Gates

    I have read that in countries where babies are typically "worn" on their mothers all day (India especially), there is virtually no colic. I struggled with 2 babies with colic, so I wonder if baby-wearing with more frequency would have solved the problem. I could never find a comfortable sling, though.

  4. Shannon Miller

    I love my pouch for little babies, but once they get some size on them I switch to a wrap. It takes just a little bit longer to put on, but it is so comfortable! Even carrying big babies, I've never had a back ache from it. Love my wrap!

  5. melissa mailly

    I have to agree that for bigger babies a wrap is the greatest! In fact, I'm using a stretchy wrap for my newest babe right now. I can chase my toddler, homeschool my oldest, prepare meals, do laundry… I've even mowed the lawn with a baby in a wrap, all without back or shoulder soreness. I have to agree that it is INDISPENSABLE! My toddler was also one of those who hated his carseat with a passion, so a pouch or wrap was always with me in the diaper bag.

    By the way, here's a great article on why it's not the best to use an infant carseat as a "baby tote." http://www.continuum-concept.org/reading/spinalStress.html

    Thanks for the great post! Can't wait to read more.

  6. Megan@SortaCrunchy

    Thanks for the feedback, ladies! I am going to be looking for reader recommendations for upcoming articles in this series. Do you have a carrier you absolutely love? (Or one you did not love so much?) I'd love to hear about it. You can reply here or email me at SortaCrunchy at gmail dot com. THANKS!

  7. Shannon Miller

    I've made all of my wraps and pouches. As a mater of fact, I hate to even claim that I made my wrap because literally all I did was purchase and cut fabric:) The trick I think is to find fabric with just the right amount of stretch. I have pouches in every fabric known to man, but just two wraps made of the same material (one that goes with me and one backup that must.never.leave.the.car!).

  8. Sara

    I'm looking forward to the rest of this series. I love love loved my sling with my first but for some reason this time around my back really hurts when I use it. I've been wrapping #2 and really enjoying it. I'd like to get some material and make another just for the fun of it. I'm also super excited to soon be the owner of an Ergo carrier which I hope to use many a time with both older and younger daughter.

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