Take a moment to reflect on the current State of Your Marriage. How are things going? Is there strife? Or is all fairly even keel? Are you feeling gloriously in love? Or are you kind of wondering if it was all a mistake? This simple exercise is helpful in all of those situations.

Carve out a bit of quiet time and come up with a list of 10 things you love about your husband. You can do this in a journal or on your blog, if you keep one, or in letter form or e-mail. Just as long as the list somehow gets out of your head into word form.

You can do bullet points or paragraphs, phrases or complete sentences, you can go beyond ten if inspiration strikes. The only “rules” are to focus on the positive and be honest.

I would encourage you to share your list with your husband when you’ve finished. And if you’d like to share your list with us, we’ll do so at the League of Extraordinary Wives!

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