In the book, Hot Monogamy, over fifteen hundred couples were interviewed about their relationships. I’ll discuss many of the findings on this site. Today, let’s learn the most underestimated way your husband gains happiness and self confidence.

Most women have no idea how much happiness their spouse gains when he feels he has the ability to make them happy. Did you get that? Husbands are happy when they feel that they can make us happy.

The researchers found that men not only wanted to make their wives happy, in fact men lived to please their wives. Let that sink in for a moment, Ladies.

So, if men just live to please us, why don’t they treat us like royalty? The answer lies in yesterday’s post, Why men emotionally withdraw from their wives. Men, more often than not, will stop trying to please their wives if they feel they will be unsuccessful.

Go make your husband feel successful and reap the benefits! Accept his loving actions and try to overlook those daily annoyances. Before long you will see a dramatic increase of loving behaviors from your husband.

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