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Let’s face it: we’re all busy these days, so it only makes sense that we evenly split household responsibilities, right? Maybe, but it doesn’t always seem to work out that way, does it? That could be why you may find yourself standing over a sink full of dirty dishes, seething, while your Hubby lounges on the couch, in front of “Hole in the Wall.” Before you blow up, try these tips and keep the peace:

• When bringing up chores, try to ask for what you need, rather than nagging. If something is important, say so. Don’t expect your guy to be a mind-reader.
• Make a list of chores and see what you can negotiate and what seems fair. What are the things that need to be done and how often? You both have a say in the matter, and you will probably renegotiate the list in the future, so nothing you decide right now is set in stone
• Tell him he’ll get more sex. I know it sounds silly and potentially sexist, but according to a study conducted by Dr. John Gottman, men who regularly contribute to housework are more likely to have sex more often than those who don’t. The theory is that women who feel respected are more likely to reciprocate with their spouses.
• If nothing else, try a checklist. Stumped for ideas? Try this checklist from the Nest.

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