They say money can’t buy happiness, but why are we always so stressed when it comes to money matters? I have a beautiful healthy son, a loving husband, and a great job. However when the subject of finances arises, my mood changes from feeling blessed to utterly depressed. How can we find inner peace with our finances?

Here are some of my suggestions:

• Pray- Pray for peace, guidance, patience, whatever fits your situation. God loves you and wants to hear from you.
• Talk- Discussing struggles, sharing a tip, or even just venting helps send gray clouds packing.
• Budget- While you may not have enough money to do all the things you want, having a plan can put your mind at ease. There is something freeing about knowing exactly where your money is going.
• Think Happy Thoughts- research has proven thinking positive can help lower blood pressure, ease PMS symptoms, and even help you lose weight! Instead of thinking “If my husband had a better job”, try reframing your thoughts into ones like “I am thankful my husband has a job.” Simply using the word “when” instead of “if” can boost your outlook.

Norman Vincent Peale once said “Empty pockets never held anyone back.  Only empty heads and empty hearts can do that.” Don’t let your finances run your life.

How do you find peace with your money?

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Janet Ziegler is a mom, wife, and teacher. She and her husband are on a quest to “happen to their money” rather than “let their money happen to them.” She can be found blogging about hot issues at educate, empower, enjoy or keeping up with her crazy family at ZieglerZoo.