Neither daycare nor nanny can replace having a mother at home with her children. Unfortunately for many women, staying at home is not an option.

When I first went back to work after having my oldest, we knew we had to get a nanny.  As my daughter grew a little older, we transitioned her to a daycare.  Then after our second was born we switched back to a nanny.

If you are trying to decide which is best for your family, there are many things to consider.  For us, a nanny was the best option for infants and toddlers but daycare/preschools seemed a better fit as they got older.

From my perspective, here are some of the benefits of each.

Nanny:

• Ideal for newborns and toddlers because the child gets to have familiar surroundings and nap in their own bed
• During the summer and after school your children can play with friends in the neighborhood
• Your child can be in after school activities without requiring you to leave work to take them
• Mornings are easier because you only have to get yourself ready
• More one on one “School” time
• You determine what your child is taught and the style of discipline

Daycare:

• Your child learns how to become friends and work in groups at a young age
• Your child will not require your constant attention when you are home because they have learned how to play independently
• You don’t have to plan meals for the time you are at work and you know the school menu for the week ahead of time
• Your house stays clean because there is no one home messing it up (which also results in less wear on hardwood floors, carpet traffic areas, etc.)
• You can observe the teachers prior to signing your child up

It isn’t an easy decision but many women have to make it.  If you choose or need to work outside of the home,  it is very important that you feel comfortable and happy with your decision regarding child care.

Next time I’ll post some of the drawbacks of each option.

What are some of the benefits you see of each option?