My family faced an uphill battle getting my son Jimmy help to work on correcting a speech delay and other developmental issues.  There are several resources to look into to get help for your child; no trashing of doctor’s offices necessary.

• Begin with your pediatrician or family doctor. They can help evaluate if there is a problem and refer to necessary resources for assistance.  If your pediatrician or family doctor has brushed you and your concerns off, try another doctor in the practice or find a new doctor through mom referrals and your insurance directory, if you have insurance.
• If your pediatrician is not on the same page as your family, try an Early Intervention program. Early Intervention is available from birth to the day before age 3, usually on a sliding scale for fees based on income.  The program may have other names in different states, but begin under Health and Human Services for your state for contact numbers.  Or your pediatrician/family doctor may be able to give you the local contact number.
• If your child is over three, the jurisdiction falls to the local school district. Contact the department of Special Education for how and when to have your child evaluated.  You can also have your child attend a preschool screening to determine if further evaluation is needed.
• If your child has been given a specific diagnosis, you can contact an organization that is dedicated to the disability. Organizations such as Easter Seals, Autism Speaks or Little Friends can help find all types of resources for a child with a disability.  Google search can help you find specific organizations and locations in your area.
• Finally, a last point.  If  are planning to get help for your child therapy or equipment, make sure you know what insurance will and won’t pay for. As I discovered, since my son’s delay was characterized as developmental, no therapy would be paid for.  My husband’s insurance would not pay for any therapy unless it was needed due to an injury or stroke.  Some insurances are more generous and others are more restrictive, find out your coverages and out of pocket costs before anything is scheduled or ordered so there is no surprise over costs.  If you have an HMO or a restricted PPO, make sure all referrals are obtained before the appointment so there is no disputing of costs or who is to pay.

Do you have any other ideas or suggestions that got your child help? Were you able to find a grant to pay for care that insurance would not cover?

You can read more about Jennifer’s chaotic, daily life at Toast on the Ceiling.