I have read many, many posts about the love we feel and encouragement we provide for our children. Watching them experience things for the first time is an amazing thing to watch. Helping our children become confident in who they are on the inside and out is a parental priority.

But are your words and actions mimicking your teachings?

• What do your kids hear you say about yourself (and/or your spouse)?
• How do you treat others in front of your kids?
• What do your kids see you watching on the television, computer, etc?

It’s always shocking to first time parents when they overhear their child say something in public that was obviously overheard in their home. I want to encourage you to think about what you say and do that might be sending mixed signals to your children. Don’t just give grace to your children…give grace to yourself. Don’t just tell your daughter how beautiful she is…tell yourself how beautiful you are. Becoming aware of your influence is eye-opening.
The one thing that I really have to watch is my road rage. I didn’t realize how vocal I would be when my kids were in the car until I heard my youngest, out of the blue, say, “Can you drive any slower, ya moron?!” GULP! I was floored!  Can you guess what I’m working on now?

What are some areas that you feel might be imprinting on your kids?

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