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Often times I am asked, “Where do I begin to decorate in my home?” This answer may surprise you, but I usually suggest beginning in the most neglected room in the house, the Master Bedroom! Some people find that strange since it is the least viewed by visitors. This may be true, but keep in mind that you decorate primarily for your own family. When making your home a comfortable and inspiring environment-the master bedroom is very important.
Many times when I enter a home to do a redesign consultation, I find that the master bedroom is a catch all for everything. It is not uncommon to find unsightly gun racks, sporting equipment, bags of stuff being donated to charity, craft items, dirty clothes, old newspapers, etc.
Whether you are single or married your master bedroom should be your retreat from this hectic, crazy world. If you are a young mother it is particularly important. You need a special place for just you and your husband. It should be relaxing, romantic and inviting. It is best when oozing comfort and warmth created by using lots of texture and beautiful fabrics. It can feel like a nice 5-star, luxury hotel room but better as you add your personal touches. This need not be overly expensive as you can purchase many things at reasonable prices. Your room should never be cluttered with anything that does not belong in a bedroom. Try making it mentally and physically relaxing and adorn it with things you love.
Recently I helped a client redesign her bedroom. Look at the stunning results.
Remember that lighting is so important in a bedroom. Often overhead lighting is way too harsh. However, in this room a chandelier has been installed replacing a ceiling fan and look how beautiful it is! Add a dimmer switch to create the setting you desire.
New taller bedside lamps were purchased also and we have found that buffet lamps look perfect in a bedroom and actually cast reading light where you need it, when the bed has been elevated.
Dated pink and blue wallpaper was removed and a nice warm paint tone was selected that compliments the new bedding. Always pick your bedding first and then choose your paint. Most people want to do it the other way around and that is much harder.
The bed will be the focal point of the room so make it beautiful with textiles, various textures and decorative pillows. Make it a lovely relaxing retreat for yourself and your spouse. Have fun creating your own personal retreat. You would be surprised how many men enjoy having a beautiful bedroom. I have had several call me and say, “Thank you!” They didn’t even realize it was important to them until they experienced the difference it made in their lives.
ABOUT Bonnie
Bonnie is a Redesigner and Home Stager in Northern CA. She enjoys creating an inviting home environ{read more}
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Great article! Is there a post or a link with Bonnie’s blog?
Rachel, thank you for your comment! I have a passion for beautiful bedrooms! I do have a blog that is currently being redesigned. It should be up and running by the end of next week. interiorsbydesigndefined.blogspot.com
i’m all about creating sanctuary in the master bedroom on the lylah blog! love it. lylah
My bedroom is my favorite room in my house. It’s not always perfect but it’s my space and I have all the things that I love in there. Great fabrics, tons of pillows, a giant window, pictures of my amazing girls, enough storage to organize all my junk and of course TV on DVD! It’s totally a haven. Great article, thanks for sharing!
Lylah, I’ll check out your site! Thanks for sharing!
Miss Jen, isn’t it awesome to have a great retreat? I am happy youc are happy with your bedroom as I know how much of a haven it an be for a busy person. Thanks for taking the time to comment!
Ours hasn’t really gotten that way yet, but I could see it becoming that way. As it is, our lighting in there is broken so we don’t spend much time in it.
It’s a great refuge at night, or at least the bed is. But maybe I should think of it as a refuge from my computer, etc, as well. It’s where my sewing table/desk is, but I don’t bring the computer in there much so I can keep some boundaries.
Mrs. M…I am so glad you are thinking about making your room a refuge. Sometimes multi-purposing a room makes it less restful. Another big distraction is a TV, although I know a lot of couples like one in their rooms. I think you are smart to keep the computer out. I know I am totally hooked on mine so it has to stay out of our room! Thanks for reading and commenting!
Bonnie, one thing I won’t have in a bedroom is a tv…unless it’s a studio. I grew up in a house with only one tv and we were happy most of the time (ok, a few tv fights). For years we only watched movies, which limited our tv-watching time and made it more intentional. There wasn’t any chance for aimless channel flipping.
Sometimes we also watch stuff on hulu on our computers, so I occasionally bring one in there when I’ve got a big sewing project so I can watch online or watch a DVD. But our only tv is in the living room.
Great job!!!!