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Time and I do not get along very well. It always flies when I’m having fun and goes by way too fast. It knows that if I have it, I will waste it, and it’s never, ever on my side.
And I can see why. I spend way too much of it being idle, I’m notorious for squandering it and I don’t always plan to use it wisely. I wait until the last minute to try and make the most of it, and before I know it, it’s gone.
It doesn’t matter how hard I try to control time. It will not speed up and it will not slow down. It will not pause when I just need a minute, and it demands my patience, though I never really want to give it. I’m always pressed for it, it always has constraints, and it ignores my pleas for just a little more. Things have been this way for quite a while, and I’m convinced that it really is time for a change.
So, I’m learning.
I’m learning to make the most of every moment and to put my time to good use. I’m discovering ways to celebrate it, to embrace it, to maximize it, and spend it well. I’m learning to redeem the time because the days are evil; learning to trust God because my times are in His hands. I’m learning to walk patiently with Him as time passes, confident that He has ordained a time for every purpose and every work.
I’m learning to number my days to gain a heart of wisdom. So, I value the 5,475 days I’ve spent with my husband and look forward to the thousands yet ahead. I cherish the minutes with my children, who will only live about a quarter of their lives in my care, and I’m refusing to let that time just slip away.
I’m renegotiating my relationship with time, and I’m inviting you to do the same. There’s no time like the present and there’s not a minute to spare because I’m running out of clever quotes and we’re running out of time.
Scripture References: Ephesians 5:16, Psalm 31:15, Ecclesiastes 3:17, Psalm 90:12
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I'm mama to 2 sweethearts and I've been married for 15 years. I love writing, teaching and encouragi{read more}


Dear Anitra,
I can’t call you “my dear little niece” anymore. You’ve grown in so many ways. Thank you for sharing your article. I enjoyed it and more so, will use it in my Women’s Ministry to encourage others. Continue to let God use you. I am so proud. Congratulations! To God be the glory —
Love, Aunt Marilyn
Anitra, it makes me proud to know that God has given me such a gift as you. You are truly a blessing to me and others, and I know God is going to use you to reach the masses. I pray I’m around to see you go higher in Him.
Love mom
I don’t get along very well with Time either. The same thing with you, I’m still learning to live every moment of my life and make the most out of it. Life is indeed trial and error and Time plays the game of life with us.
you have a great gift of communication, my dear. i miss you more now, after reading this article, because i went back in time to when we were a constant presence in each others lives. here… i’m giving you a big hug right now in my mind. SQUEEZE! hope you receive it. i love you!