By Meg Massey | Leave A Comment
The recent crisis in Haiti has made all of us re-think some things. People around the world are donating their time, money and other precious gifts to the suffering people of Haiti. So many have lost their lives in the initial earthquake and the aftershocks that have followed. My heart goes out to them, but in the midst of all of this giving, I can’t help but think that we should be pouring out this kind of love and support to the suffering every day.
Pain comes in many different forms. Sometimes it’s the result of a tragedy like this. Or, as almost any American family right now can tell you, it’s losing a job and wondering where your next paycheck is going to come from. It’s the pain of losing a loved one. It’s disappointment, depression, a lack of kindness or understanding.
I wonder how many times I’ve passed a person in pain, completely oblivious to them and what they were feeling. I wonder how many times I’m missed the opportunity to help someone in need; whatever that need might have been.
In the past week we’ve seen such generosity flowing from people all over the world. What would our world be like if this is how we lived every day?
Today I feel inspired to get involved, learning to recognize the needs of others. Extending a hand when it’s needed, a shoulder to cry on, a listening ear, a flexible schedule, an open wallet, but most of all, an open heart.
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After 9/11 I wondered what it would be like if we were all so united and patriotic. Now, in the aftermath of Haiti, I’ve wondered what if we were always this compassionate. It’s challenged me to not just wait to help, but to give help before it’s asked.
Meg,
I am feeling what you wrote more than you know. My day job is student account collections and Perkins Loan Coordinator.
I spend much of the time talking to people in emotional duress. I have found it is best to treat people like the adults they are. Explain the options they have and let them choose what they want to do.
Many times we come across strangers with frowns and nasty attitudes. I think we should all make an effort to be kind to everyone. EVEN the people we do not want to be kind to for they are the ones that likely need it most.
I am not saying let folks walk all over you but LOOK BEYOND YOURSELF and treat them how they should be treated.
Perhaps they are annoyingly trying to sell you something so they can keep the electicity on in their home.
Or maybe they cut you off on the road because they are rushing their sick child to the hospital and worrying about how they are gonna pay for it since they have no insurance.
One last thought maybe they are nasty to you because they have gotten one kind word or smile all day.
STOP THINKING OF YOURSELF ALL THE TIME and begin thinking about others. Happiness is like a watched pot, once you turn away it will boil over.